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'Men Buy, Women Shop': The Sexes Have Different Priorities When Walking Down the Aisles

Published: November 28, 2007 in Knowledge@Wharton
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When it comes to shopping, women are from Nordstrom's and men are from Sears.

Women are happy to meander through sprawling clothing and accessory collections or detour through the shoe department. They like to glide up glass escalators past a grand piano, or spray a perfume sample on themselves on their way to, maybe, making a purchase. For men, shopping is a mission. They are out to buy a targeted item and flee the store as quickly as possible, according to new Wharton research.

In a study titled, "Men Buy, Women Shop," researchers at Wharton's Jay H. Baker Retail Initiative and the Verde Group, a Toronto consulting firm, found that women react more strongly than men to personal interaction with sales associates. Men are more likely to respond to more utilitarian aspects of the experience -- such as the availability of parking, whether the item they came for is in stock, and the length of the checkout line.

"Women tend to be more invested in the shopping experience on many dimensions," says Robert Price, chief marketing officer at CVS Caremark and a member of the Baker advisory board. "Men want to go to Sears, buy a specific tool and get out."

As one female shopper between the ages of 18 and 35 told the researchers: "I love shopping. I love shopping even when I have a deadline. I just love shopping." Compare that to this response from a male in the same age group who described how men approach retailing: "We're going to this store and we buy it and we leave because we want to do something else."

Price says women's role as caregiver persists even as women's professional responsibilities mount. He speculates that this responsibility contributes to women's more acute shopping awareness and higher expectations. On the other hand, after generations of relying on women to shop effectively for them, men's interest in shopping has atrophied.

According to Wharton marketing professor Stephen J. Hoch, shopping behavior mirrors gender differences throughout many aspects of life. "Women think of shopping in an inter-personal, human fashion and men treat it as more instrumental. It's a job to get done," he says, adding that the data has implications for retailers interested in developing a more segmented approach to build and maintain loyalty among male and female customers.

Feeling Important vs. Checking Out Fast

"Men Buy, Women Shop" also found that women are more likely to experience problems while shopping than men -- 53% vs. 48%, with women over age 40 reporting more problems than men in the same age group.

For women, "lack of help when needed" is the top problem (29%). It is also the likeliest reason that stores lose the business of women shoppers. Indeed, according to an analysis of the study's data, about 6% of all female shoppers could be lost to stores due to lack of sales help. Men, however, ranked "difficulty in finding parking close to the store's entrance" as the number one problem (also 29%). The problem most likely to result in lost business from men is if the product they came to buy is out of stock; about 5% of all male shoppers could be lost to stores for this reason.

Male and female shoppers also have different reactions to sales associates. For men, an associate's interest in helping them find an item is most important, followed by the sales associate's effort in getting them through checkout quickly. For women, store loyalty is related to sales associates' familiarity with the products in the store and an ability to determine what products best suit the customer. Women shoppers also value sales associates who make them feel important, according to the survey.

In an interview with researchers, one woman in the 18 to 35 bracket described the employees in a favorite store. "The sales associates are always great. They always show me different styles. They will show me something new that's come in." Meanwhile, a man in the same age bracket said this: "I haven't had much interaction with most sales people. I don't really need them -- as long as they're at the checkout."

Paula Courtney, president of the Verde Group, suggests that the attitudes expressed toward sales associates reflect subtle, but important, differences between men and women. When asked what problem would make respondents so angry they would never return to a store, women cited employees who "acted like you were intruding on their time or their own conversations." Men were most miffed by employees who were "lazy, i.e., would not check for additional stock or take you to the item you were looking for."

Courtney points out that for women, it's more personal. For men, problems with associates are still linked directly to getting the item they need. "Women are more apt to be angered by a lack of engagement behavior from the sales associates. For men, while engagement is still important, it's not as important as the product and getting in and out quickly."

Retailers can use the study findings to tailor services to build sales, she said. "In a highly competitive market, where people are price-sensitive and there are tons of choices, if you can get one more strategy up your sleeve that gives you that edge, then why not?" she asks. "If we treat men and women differently, then we are going to be more successful." Erin Armendinger, managing director of the Baker initiative, puts it this way: "Men and women are simply different," she says. "It's important for retailers to remember it's not only what they're purchasing, but how they're doing it."

Price suggests that retailers who want to improve their ability to reach shoppers based on gender can take some concrete steps. First, however, they must be sure that their operations are running as smoothly as possible in order to avoid irritations, such as out-of-stock merchandise or a lack of advertising circulars that diminish the shopping experience for men and women both. He also says that efforts to reach out to women shoppers cannot be superficial, such as simply putting up signs or changing the color of uniforms.

Communication is critical to reaching women shoppers, Price adds. Sales associates need to understand whether the shopper is looking for a product that will come out of disposable income, such as cosmetics, or a more essential and difficult to understand product -- such as an over-the-counter drug or first aid treatment. Helping shoppers in those two different categories requires different styles of communication. Sales associates must be trained to recognize and react to shoppers' cues.

Retailers hoping to appeal to women shoppers also need to devote attention to editing their assortment of items, Price says. Managers may be tempted to offer a wide swath of products, but he cites research showing that women who have to balance many responsibilities prefer stores with limited selections, such as Coach, Trader Joe's and Sephora.

Finally, he says, hiring women throughout the ranks will bring retailers more in touch with what women want. At his company, women make up the majority of sales associates and are heavily represented in the marketing department. No idea gets floated too far before a woman can reflect on how it might impact her own life, he notes.

The Many Faces of the Sales Associate

Women spend $4 trillion annually and account for 83% of U.S. consumer spending, which makes up two-thirds of the nation's gross national product, according to WomenCertified, a women's consumer advocacy and retail training organization headquartered in Hollywood, Fla., which also worked on the study.

The "Men Buy, Women Shop" study is based on a random, national sample of 1,250 shoppers who were asked about a recent shopping experience in telephone interviews conducted from October 20 to November 4, 2007. The sample was dominated, two to one, by females.

While many of the study's findings do not come as a surprise to retailers, the hard data may help companies focus better on some of the problems cited by men and women, according to Delia Passi, founder of WomenCertified. She says retailers have long sensed the differences between men and women as shoppers. "It goes back to gatherers versus hunters. Women are gatherers. Men are hunters. Women walk into a store and scan. Men look for a specific aisle." Scientific research, she notes, shows women have better peripheral vision than men, which would benefit them as gatherers.

Passi says the underlying attitudes that frame the shopping experience for men and women -- with women more focused on the experience; men on the mission -- do not necessarily play into sexist stereotypes of women as more emotional and weaker. "When it comes to the retail experience, men and women both go into the store to buy something, only she wants more. She wants more interaction. She wants more eye contact. He wants quick answers while she's looking for support and collaboration in the buying process." Passi acknowledged that many of the observations revealed in the survey still reflect generalities and that many women and men do not fit into the broader patterns. Indeed, as the owner of her own business, she is pressed for time and often behaves more like the survey's male respondents when shopping.

According to Hoch, the recent study, along with other Baker research, indicates that sales associates are critical to retail operations because employees are one way competitors can differentiate themselves from one another to gain market share. "It's hard to do anything about parking or the mall being too crowded, but they can do things about the sales associates," he notes. "What I found interesting is how women tend to be more focused on people while men act almost as if they are dealing with an ATM machine. In fact, they want to deal with an ATM machine. They really don't want to deal with a person."

Courtney acknowledges that responding to the study's findings adds another responsibility for sales associates who are often already juggling many different priorities on the retail floor. "At the end of the day, a sales associate has to be multifaceted," she says. "They have to be an engager, an expediter and an educator. They must be authentic, but what this study tells us is those buttons have to be turned on and off -- or turned on more or less -- depending on whether you are dealing with a man or a woman."

She says retailers need to step up and deliver more sophisticated, segmented service, not only taking into account gender, but also age, ethnicity and regional differences. "There's no such thing as customer homogeneity. We're not a homogeneous bunch at all. Yet as organizations, we end up treating customers as one big happy family. You've got all sorts of demographic and psychographic forces at play."

Gender, she notes, is one of the easier customer attributes to address in a strategic fashion. Truly sophisticated marketers could get into attempting to differentiate services by gender and age or between professional women and those who manage households full-time. "At some level, what is practical and ideal start to diverge, but I think gender is a pretty simple segment to do differently."

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Total Comments: 18

#1    No kidding

It always bemuses and amuses me when business schools or economists spend millions of research dollars to 'discover' what everyone already knew.

It's also refreshing however, to see that politically correct pandering is not getting in the way of asserting the obvious fact that men and women are different.

This was trenchantly revealed to me when an old girlfriend once asked me to accompany her window-shopping. Bemused, I did so, unable to believe we wouldn't make at least a few purchases. Instead, we spent the whole day traipsing across town, walking into and around shops, and literally peering into windows for the pure pleasure of browsing the latest fashions.

We bought absolutely nothing, and indeed she was broke at the time and had never intended to. As a male, I considered it the strangest afternoon I had ever spent - going to shops with the express intention of buying nothing.

She, however, was absolutely radiant, having spent an extremely enjoyable afternoon revelling in the shopping experience, unencumbered by the irrelevant annoyance of actually purchasing something.
By: Hakeem Yesufu,
Sent: 01:55 AM Thu Nov.29.2007 - MY

#2    Gender shopping differences

Frankly, I was surprised to see that even what every adult who has dropped out of high school knows required a Wharton study to publish as marketing science.

For women, shopping is predominantly (social) entertainment, although it is also functional, like it is for men. Women often "go shopping" in small groups of 2-4; how many times do we see this phenomenon among men?

This report needed more substantive study (hypotheses and predictive results) rather than arbitrary speculation such as historic foundations about men having been hunters and women having been gatherers.
By: larry reibstein, Watchdog/dog
Sent: 02:01 AM Thu Nov.29.2007 - US

#3    male sales associates

I agree that female associates bring in more business because they tend to be more patient than male ones. It is what I've been observing for some time now in Chinese malls in Beijing.

This should bring about the creation of "men-only" shopping malls with fast check-out and quick-to-find items: ditto for women-only malls with especially-trained sales associates.

Likewise, the idea can be applied in negotiations with men: Be concise, to the point, explain the merits of your argument and get the matter done and over with.

Or gender-targeted advertising? It would be great if the ads contained more "useful" information than the current-run-of-the-mill media glamour hoopla.
By: James Nasser, DjNasser Inc.
Sent: 05:56 AM Thu Nov.29.2007 - CN

#4    Men Buy, Women Shop

Has anyone done research on Internet shopping behaviors to see how men and women compare/contrast in behaviors? Are retail sites properly structured to account for differences based on their clientele? While some sites have improved search significantly in recent years, others seem to encourage "shopping" or rambling around their site. Is this intentional?
By: Jeff Fread, CDG Consulting Group, Inc.
Sent: 06:01 AM Thu Nov.29.2007 - -

#5    Male shopper agrees !

This article is dead-on! I have one objective when I go in a store -- find the item I want at the best possible price, and quickly leave afer the transaction. In fact, I will choose "self check-out" most times to avoid a potential hold-up. I'm not agoraphobic, but I can't take the bee-hive like atmosphere of retail outlets for more than about 30 minutes -- I don't see how women do it !

My most frequent shopping stops are the specialty Sears tool stores, Home Depot and Lowes, as I am an avid home remodeler and handyman. I will admit to surfing the tool aisles to see what's new, and have on occasion been bitten by the $2 impulse item displays, typically located near the check-out lines. These stores should have "no candy" lines like the supermarkets.

Good luck on finding and keeping an effective sales associates work force. These type of jobs are migratory, with skill sets largely confined to re-stocking the displays and finding someone else that may be able to help. However, I will say that the aforementionesd tool stores (at least in my area) are effective at hiring the right type of sales associates -- mostly retired tradesmen (and women) with reasonably good people skills. Good installation advice and selection of the right products -- can't beat it!
By: Ernie Wilder,
Sent: 06:11 AM Thu Nov.29.2007 - US

#6    Men Buy, Women Shop ~ On Main Street USA

As a trainer for Main Street USA merchant groups, your article is a resource I will pass along. Retail merchants in many town centers are struggling. Owners often have the 'blinders on' when it comes to identifying and catering to the needs of their target markets, consistent marketing outreach, and sales staff training. They don't differentiate their products and services and they definitely don't give reasons to their target audience to shop in their stores. It's all about repeat and referral business, loyalty, and word of mouth. Despite the challenges of super stores, category busters, globalization, and competition in a 'flat' world, the need for 'brick and mortar' merchants will continue to exist. The issue is to devise and implement a system to sustain long-term growth and profitability. Business is changing constantly. Merchants need to wake up, because, alas, only the sophisticated will thrive. (Remarks from a 'born' Guerrilla Marketer)
By: Vicki Lynne Morgan, Russmor Marketing Group
Sent: 08:03 AM Thu Nov.29.2007 - US

#7    Women shop, men buy

With all due deference and respect to whoever commissioned this study.... it took a "random, national sample of 1,250 shoppers" to come to this conclusion?
By: Derrick Bloch, goLuxe Travel
Sent: 09:38 AM Thu Nov.29.2007 - -

#8    shopping experience

Is the difference in shopping mirroring the difference between hunting and gathering???

There has recently been a suggestion that the success of modern humans over their competitor neanderthals was division of labor. Evidence seems to suggest that both male and female neanderthals hunted (a dangerous job), whereas modern humans specialized fairly far back. The result was less loss of females of reproductive age and better success for the tribe.

As a male shopper, I tend to want minimal interaction with sales people. I want them available if I have a question, but beyond that I don't want them to ask me how I am doing, or remember my name or what I bought last time. I don't want to chat.
By: j holovacs,
Sent: 11:15 AM Thu Nov.29.2007 - -

#9    Missing a major point

This article misses a major point. Women often "scan" and "shop around" in order to get the best value for the lowest price, a habit that extends across to grocery shopping. Also, women tend to be more adaptable... . They do not decide beforehand what they want to buy, but rather allow their decisions to be determined by different environments (what is on sale, what is not, etc).
By: Anni ,
Sent: 02:22 PM Thu Nov.29.2007 - US

#10    Men and ATM machines

Towards the end of the article, the statement is made that men would prefer to "...deal with an ATM machine." This thought echoes a study done a couple of years ago regarding gender and self checkout. A summary of one study can be found here: http://www.factsfiguresfuture.com/archive/october_2005.htm and here, http://www.diggernews.com/NC/0/433.html. As stores develop their sales staffs to work differently by gender, perhaps populating the mens departments and the tool section with self checkout lanes would further enhance the male shopper's experience.
Interesting that unrelated studies from separate perspectives came up with correlating results.
By: Brian McMackin,
Sent: 03:41 PM Thu Nov.29.2007 - US

#11    Quant vs. Qual

Fortunes have been made attending to what is obvious - just ask the folks at Barnes & Noble or Starbucks - ability to execute on the supply side is crucial but given the impact of the web on how we shop, we need to revisit the obvious.

I think the generalization works – I’ve done research in stores and found so many gender related deal killers - it was sad. But to be sure, qualitative know-how will be key to a retailers success but what is true for one category/context/shopping experience/shopper type differs for others, consider the following:

Best Buy saw women shoppers on the day after Thanksgiving (Black Friday) looking lost and confused in the store – they had printouts from the web, they had done their research and just wanted to pick up their gift and go, (where as a man might want to spend 2 hours in a store to research the home theatre)

Lowes Home Centers changed their design to cater to women but some men spend two hours in Home Depot dreaming of power tools and enjoying the smell of saw dust.

Ultimately we will need to find new ways to justify demand side investments – that requires segment/context specific data - this relates to the ROI of design research but that's a separate topic.

Nice work, the obvious is always overlooked.

PS: when I go to pick up a tool, I am usually in a rush to get home to install something my wife bought during her casual Saturday shopping experience – but thanks to her, I got to see that table saw - I think I'll go back and spend 1 hour learning more.
By: Vahe Katros, VKC
Sent: 08:06 PM Thu Nov.29.2007 - US

#12    what % consumer goods women really buy

In 1959, my Jr. high school teacher told us women do 80% of the consumer spending. I see in your article that statistical data remains stable.

I challenge that number, because it probably doesn't take into account the huge amount of money that men spend that women actually expect men to spend for them. Take expensive jewelry, new homes, automobiles, expensive wines, clothing, etc. for example. I am curious how that 83% statistic is collected and compiled.
By: larry reibstein, Watchdog/dog
Sent: 12:13 PM Fri Nov.30.2007 - US

#13    Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus

Gender behavior is one of the most important aspects of marketing.

Good to know!!
By: Venkatesh Krishnamoorthy,
Sent: 03:29 AM Sat Dec.01.2007 - IN

#14    Shopping

Not so fast! I don't think this is so black and white.

While I agree the gender shopping behaviors seem very empirically true, there is a missing aspect which is the nature of the shopping.

To me, torture = shoe shopping. On the other hand, I noticed my wife will not enter Fry's, Radio Shack, Home Depot or Microcenter. I have no problem lingering in there and looking to see what is new.

Actually, Menards and Home Depot recently became painful for me during the paint selection process.

There was some research about men's heart rate during shopping not long ago. Now it is a running joke in our family.
By: Domenico Tassone, Walmart.com/Online Media
Sent: 04:30 PM Sun Dec.02.2007 - -

#15    Very good insight.

I find this article very interesting, and I do agree that most of it is true. With this information, businesses really get to plan their strategy better and increase their revenue. Interesting research too.
By: Yueh Phing Chung,
Sent: 04:09 AM Wed Dec.05.2007 - MY

#16    Men Buy, Women Shop

I hope retailers don't take the research from this article at face value. I can say from even a personal level that in our household, it is precisely the opposite of what is presented here. I supremely dislike everything about shopping: spending the money, searching for products, walking the aisles, interacting with the sales staff, etc. My husband could spend all day doing any of these things. The big difference is that I more acutely feel the responsibilities of the household. Consequently, I want to allocate less time to it and want to spend less of our income on it.
By: Dawn Bibbs-Morrissey, AHIMA
Sent: 02:19 PM Wed Dec.12.2007 - US

#17    True, but...

This article is soooo true. As a female, I could go to the mall from opening till closing and never even have to take a break. When I walk in to the mall, if I'm sad, all of a sudden I get happy. It's really weird. When I am doing something else that requires walking around for an entire day, I tire and need to take breaks and usually get to a point where I am so tired I just want to go home.

However, I don't entirely agree with the article on its view on window shopping. Even when I try to window shop, I always end up liking something and then leaving the mall feeling sad and then thinking about the item over and over following the trip until I go back and get it.

Also, my parents are completely different, so the article defintely makes some generalizations. My mom HATES shopping and just goes to get something and get out as fast as possible. Every time she took me to the mall when I was in high school or younger, she would end up getting really annoyed because I couldnt decide between shades of pink and would declare "WE'RE LEAVING, NOW!" as she stormed out. My dad on the other hand, is so fun to shop with. While he likes different stores than I do (Pottery Barn, Williams Sonoma, Crate and Barrell), he is very patient and takes the time to shop around with me and pick out things he likes for me. In the stores he likes, he does just as women do- scans the store and takes the time to just look at several different things. For my dad and I, going to the mall is enjoyable and a good way to bond whereas bonding at the mall to my mom is just not possible.
By: K M,
Sent: 07:01 AM Sun Dec.16.2007 - US

#18    What women really want is appreciation!

I thank you for having written this article as the data in it points out one of the most distressing issues of our time: a sickness that afflicts millions of American women! And what is that?

Take note of the following quote:

"For women, store loyalty is related to sales associates' familiarity with the products in the store and an ability to determine what products best suit the customer. Women shoppers also value sales associates who make them feel important, according to the survey."

How incredibly sad it is that the architects of the most stabilizing force of every society in human history - the caregiver, the mother figure, the woman - first, needs personal validation of her importance in life, and then, second, that she seeks it from a person she barely knows, the "courteous" sales associate, who knows the caregiver just enough to satisfy her own self-interest by manipulating her into buying something!

"When it comes to the retail experience, men and women both go into the store to buy something, only she wants more. She wants more interaction. She wants more eye contact."

What a tragedy it is that so many women need a controlled setting in which to use the self-interest of the sales associate to get him/her to treat her with a modicum of respect.

Such mental gamesmanship should be considered a sickness brought on by the cold and cruel treatment of close family relatives on one another and, in particular, on care-giving women.

But, that should come as no surprise to any thoughtful person that, in society at large, thanks, in no small measure to the "Women's Liberation Movement" and the bill of goods sold to Baby Boomer families by Dr Spock and his kind (that they should let their children express themselves without judgement, no matter how disrespectful) being a family's caregiver - the mother - has been the most under-appreciated, disrespected and devoid of loving reciprocation of any job in America.

This has left millions of women so desperate for love and appreciation that they would attempt to play such serious mind games with themselves in a futile attempt to find self esteem and a reason to go on living. I believe that the symptoms that I have just described are severe enough to require that the general public be made aware of them and that some sort of social project be created to provide therapy for the afflicted women. In no way, shape or form should the information in this article be used to prey on the afflicted by using it to make more sales of any product.

Would you want your mother to be taken advantage of in such a way?
By: Doug Hoffer, Hoffer Properties
Sent: 08:52 AM Sat Jan.12.2008 - US
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